Anniversaries
Anniversary gifts, from the first year to the big milestones
The best anniversary gift is personal rather than expensive: something engraved, something that marks the date, or a shared experience. Traditional materials by year are a useful starting point, not a rule.
Anniversary gifting has one advantage over every other occasion — you already know the story. The best gifts reference it.
Use the traditional year materials as a prompt if you like them, and ignore them if the better gift is elsewhere.
Engraved and personalised anniversary gifts need two weeks. Book restaurants and experiences four to six weeks out.
The anniversaries gift guides



First Anniversary Gifts
Paper, photos and the first year's story.
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Milestone Anniversary Gifts (10th, 25th, 50th)
Silver, gold and gifts built to be kept.
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Luxury Anniversary Gifts
Splurges that read as romantic rather than extravagant.
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Anniversary Gifts Under $50
Romantic without the price tag.
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Romantic Just-Because Gifts
No occasion, which is exactly why they land.
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Anniversaries gifts: questions readers ask
What are the traditional anniversary gifts by year?
Paper for the first year, cotton for the second, leather for the third, wood for the fifth, tin for the tenth, silver for the twenty-fifth and gold for the fiftieth. Modern lists swap in jewellery and appliances.
How much should you spend on an anniversary gift?
Most couples spend $50 to $150 on ordinary years and more on milestones. Consistency between partners matters more than the amount.
Is an experience better than a gift for an anniversary?
For an anniversary, usually yes — but pair it with one small keepable item so there is something to open on the day.